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Meet our Board of Directors

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We mourn the death and celebrate the life of
Carolyn Wagner Families United Aganst Hate's co-founder.
Carolyn died on January 18, 2011. See
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Gabi Clayton; Olympia, WA ~ FUAH co-founder &
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Gabi
is
the mother of a hate crime
victim. Her younger son Bill came
out to the family as bisexual when he was 14 years old.
Three years later in 1995 he was assaulted in a hate crime
based on his sexual orientation and he committed suicide a
month later. Gabi learned web design so she could publish
his story on the internet.
See
Bill's Story. She works with the
Safe
Schools Coalition as their webspinner and a trainer. She is on the board of
directors of Youth Guardian Services which runs email
support lists for glbt and straight ally youth - currently she is the YGS board
chair. She is a member of
Unity in the Community,
an Olympia-based coalition dedicated to organizing positive pro-diversity
educational events and appropriate community responses to the growing hate group
presence in the Olympia area. She is on the board of
PFLAG-Olympia).
Gabi
is
a mental health counselor with
a small private practice. She and
her husband Alec run
ClaytonWorks
doing web design, graphic design, desktop publishing and
editing. THey also run
ClaytonWorks
Publishing. See her
personal website including
this essay
about her cultural heritage, and her blog
Inside the outsider ...
From 1973 to 1977 she was a
staff member at
Everything for Everybody in New York
City -
this is where she met Alec. The organization provided
crisis counseling and referral services, ran an emergency
shelter, soup line, food co-op, free school, day care
center, and community-based alternative weekly newspaper
which Alec edited. Then from 1977 to 1981 she and Alec ran
Persons Service in Hattiesburg, Mississippi, Alec's hometown. They provided
crisis counseling, referral services, emergency housing,
free meals and clothing to people in need. They organized a
food co-op, and helped to establish a statewide coalition of
battered women's shelters. They also established
Persons Publishing which ran from 1977 to 1985, publishing a
weekly alternative newspaper then a monthly magazine and
finally a statewide quarterly arts and literary magazine.
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Alec Clayton, Olympia, WA ~ FUAH secretary | |
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Alec is the father of a hate crime
victim and married to FUAH co-founder Gabi Clayton (see
above). He is
active in the Olympia, Washington chapter of PFLAG (chapter president and editor
of the chapter newsletter). Alec is a member of
Unity in the Community.
He
also worked as a program assistant for
Oasis, a glbtq youth center in Tacoma, and he once served on the
board of Stonewall Youth in Olympia.Alec
is a freelance writer and retired artist. He writes art and theater reviews for various
publications in Seattle and Tacoma, including regular columns in the Weekly Volcano, The News Tribune
and articles in ThurstonTalk.
Alec has written and published
a book of art criticism and five novels so far.
See his website
Alec
Clayton: Art & Writing and his blog
South Sound Arts etc.
He is co-owner of
ClaytonWorks, doing
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Jason Hungerford,
Ithaca, NY ~ FUAH treasurer | |
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Jason is the founder of
Youth Guardian Services, a youth-run non-profit
organization that provides support services to gay, lesbian,
bisexual, transgender, straight, and questioning youth
through peer-operated Internet-based programs. He served as
Executive Director for the first eight years and continues
to serve on the organization's Board of Directors.
Jason is
currently the Co-Chair of the
Ithaca Lesbian Gay Bisexual
Transgender Task Force in Ithaca, New York, where he and
his partner of eight years, also named Jason, live. In 2004
"The Jasons" -- along with 24 other
same-sex couples from the Ithaca area sued the City of
Ithaca and the New York Department of Health for denying
them the right to marry. In July 2006 the New York State
Court of Appeals ruled that the New York State Constitution
does not compel the state to recognize their commitments.
Despite this, the couples are determined to work with state
lawmakers to pass a law that would extend marriage rights to
same-sex couples. Professionally, Jason works as a web
developer and Internet technology consultant and owns his
own company
Blue Argo which provides web hosting and
other Internet services to small businesses and non-profit
organizations.
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Vanessa Edwards Foster, Houston, TX | |
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Biography coming. | |
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Betsy Stephens;
Denver, CO | |
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Betsy was the
co-founder and past president of PFLAG Durango, and was part
of the team that provided support to Pauline Mitchell in the
weeks and months following the murder of Fred Martinez Jr.
in Cortez, Colorado. As a direct result of those events,
Betsy and others were inspired to improve the school
experience for GLBT youth in Southwest Colorado by creating
the Four Corners Safe Schools Coalition.
Currently residing
in Denver, Betsy has continued to champion the rights of
glbtqi youth through her involvement with
PFLAG Denver,
where she currently serves on the board, and the Colorado
Coalition of PFLAG Chapters, where she assists with
organizing Safe Schools conferences and trainings. She
is currently working at the
Colorado Foundation for Families
and Children as a project assistant for the Bullying
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Steve Schalchlin; New York, NY |
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Singer and songwriter Steve Schalchlin (SHACK-lin) is
an award winning singer/songwriter and composer of two hit Off-Broadway
musicals. Steve's sudden disappearance in 1993 led many to believe he had died.
In fact, he was hospitalized with end stage AIDS and given a short time to live.
Barely able to sit up, Steve wrote songs of musical healing which became the
cult Off-Broadway rock gospel musical,
The Last Session,
(book by Steve's partner Jim Brochu).
Steve also established, early in
1996, the world's first AIDS blog/diary and the first website for an (eventual)
Off-Broadway musical -- all from his "deathbed" as his health had begun to fail
again. Awarded Internet Pioneer status by GeoCities/Yahoo, he used his
innovative site to educate health care professionals all over the world, as he
went through therapy after therapy, getting weaker and weaker until he was on a
I.V. 14 hours a day. During this time he found Gabi's website about Bill, and
inspired her to write more of his story which began thier friendship.
Rescued at the last minute by the new AIDS drugs, Steve began touring as guest
health care advocate "lecturer at the piano," singing and playing for colleges
and universities across the country, including Harvard, Stanford, Penn State and
UCLA. In 2005, he and Jim returned to Off-Broadway in their autobiographical
musical, The Big Voice:
God or Merman?, (book by Steve's partner Jim Brochu) which this time
got them the Best Musical by the L.A Ovations and Best Musical Score from the
L.A. Drama Critics Circle and Best Lead Actor in a Musical nomination. He most
recent work is a choral/orchestral song cycle for peace called
New World Waking!
inspired by his experience playing John Lennon's IMAGINE piano at the Clayton's
home on the anniversary of Bill Clayton's suicide, which debuted at Davies
Symphony Hall in 2009 by the San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus and Community
Women's Orchestra.
He donates his time as Resident Composer at Christ Church Bay Ridge,
Episcopal church, working with one of the great musical directors/musicians
in New York, Mark Janas.
To this day, Steve maintains his website/blog,
Living in the Bonus
Round, where he says funny stuff and continues to report on the state of his
health.
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Ethan St. Pierre; Haverhill,
Massachusetts
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Ethan St. Pierre is the nephew of a
hate crime victim. On May 15, 1995 his aunt, Debbie Forte,
who was a transgender woman, was brutally murdered by
Michael Thompson. Debbie was strangled, (he broke every bone
in her neck), she was beaten to the point that she was
unrecognizable, and stabbed ten times in the chest. Thompson
hid from the police and then turned himself in two weeks
later only to be let out on bail. One year and four
months later he plea bargained with the district attorney
receiving a sentence of 15 years for manslaughter. Michael
Thompson never stood trial for the murder of Debbie Forte.
Ethan is a FtM transsexual gender activist. In 1999 he
learned of the transgender movement and began to lobby
Congress on behalf of hate crime victims and survivors. He
is a board member of the National Transgender Advocacy
Coalition, He works with the Remembering Our Dead Project as
coordinator of The International Transgender Day of
Remembrance and investigates and updates the statistics of
those who are murdered as a result of anti-transgender
violence or hatred.
Ethan was the founder and creator of
the TransFM
internet broadcasting network and very active in the
Remembering Our Dead Project.
Read this article about Ethan:
Transgender equality now by
Mark Puleo, published on September 8,
2009 in Metro.
You can reach Ethan by email at:
radicalguy@gmail.com Phone: (978)
518-1835.
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